Real Estate Physics
There are certain principles that we hold to be unalienable
truths. A unit of mass at rest will stay
at rest. A unit of mass in motion will
stay in motion. These are basic rules of
physics. If A happens, we know B to be
true. Unfortunately, the laws of physics
will never apply to real estate transactions.
When buying a home, an individual will feel it is their
obligation to negotiate the price.
Regardless of whether it is a buyer’s or seller’s market, a buyer will
always search to see what room there is for negotiation. Other than automotive sales, it is the only industry where it is an accepted norm to haggle on the price.
The funny part, though, is this same logic does not apply
when they turn around years later and try to sell. The same person that felt the home they were
buying was overpriced at purchase will then try to top the
market for the highest possible value when they try to sell it. Additionally, they will often get indignant
when someone new attempts to haggle and
offer a lower price.
Why does this happen?
Why does the mass at rest not stay at rest? Why must we feel the boulder should roll
uphill when we find ourselves as the ones now forced to push it? I find the answer to be as simple as personal
attachment. As opposed to other retail
purchases such as televisions and appliances, we find ourselves exceptionally
attached to our homes. It is like a
pet. It is a reflection of
ourselves. We have poured our souls into
them. Many celebrated life events
occur there. Our kids are
born and raised there. We improve our
homes to reflect our changing personal circumstances. Get a raise, redo the kitchen. Your child graduates high school or college,
throw a party. You become empty nesters
and have the home alone for just you and your spouse? Well, that’s a story for a different web
site. Anyway, people tend to treat their
homes as if it is a business for sale instead of an asset for sale. They feel there is a degree of personal
goodwill that has value above and beyond the sticks and bricks that should be
readily apparent to every buyer that comes through the door.
Unfortunately for the seller, there is no extraneous
goodwill in the sale of real estate. George Washington did not sleep in your home. Neither did Bill Clinton. In
fact, the day someone decides to sell their home, they need to realize that it
stops being their home. Whether they
like it or not, they need to look at their residence through a very
dispassionate lens. They need to stage
the house to make it acceptable and attractive to the greatest number of
buyers. Paint the exterior a more
neutral color. Get rid of the kids’
height markings on the laundry room door.
Clean out the garage. Personal
memories need to be boxed up. No one is
buying someone else’s nostalgia.
This, though, is easier said than done. The emotional detachment you displayed for
your purchase is difficult to accept on your sale. Human nature does not have the same
principles as physics. If it did,
though, we may all find it easier to buy and sell homes.
Until next time…
Keep kicking the dirt!
Jeff Gersh is President of Gersh
Consulting Services, a real estate advisory firm, headquartered in Orlando,
FL. He may be reached at jsgersh@gmail.com
or 407-468-9328